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Ron Atkinson

Ron Atkinson

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I have known for about a week or so and have been working through all the what ifs. I want to Thank Ann for helping me through those,In the beginning I was a basket case. It wasn't till today that I was brave enough to write this in the open forums.
Last week Doctor Brandon, Teddy's main Surgical Vet said it was time for another Ultrasound on his Gallbladder and if it's any worse at all. He would suggest and have time to do the surgery that day. I think he was trying to gently tell me that it's time.
I only want the best for Teddy so if he gives the word I am going to do what he recommends .
Of course the way my luck works his appointment is on the 18th which also happens to be my wife's birthday.
I am going to cross my fingers that its a good day.
 
Ron, if you've consulted with Ann you have gotten great advice from someone with (unfortunately) a LOT of experience with this. I too was a basket case with first Elijah and then Meadow's sudden need for surgery when they had their FIRST scan. One thing my surgeon emphasized was their relatively young age (Eli was 7 and Meadow only 4). They both came through the surgery just fine. And today, over a year later, they are both still fine.

This is a much much better scenario with Teddy than if he were old and and frail. I hope his surgeon is board certified and has done this surgery before. Both of mine were back to normal within 2 weeks Ron! I'm sure Teddy will be a great patient and once it's gone, no more worrying and scanning, or even worse, sudden emergency surgery. Don't let any statistics fool you either, of the bad outcomes, those were dogs already sick from the gallbladder issue, and/or other co-morbidities.

All of us here will hold you and Teddy in our hearts and thoughts Ron. :fl:hugs
 
I'm sure the very best birthday present for your wife will be seeing your relief when you know Teddy is done and recovering! That is if he ends up needing the surgery. Otherwise you can celebrate his not needing it!

We're all here for you, Ron. As Sharon said, lots of us have more experience than we'd like with this. Lean on us whenever you need to. :hugs
 
I guess right now I'm more worried about taking care of him with my disability. I only have good use of my left arm so picking him up will be a challenge not to mention we have 3 stairs to get in and out of the house. And you are right Ann helped me so much and I can't thank her enough she saw my messages when I was truly at my wits end.
 
I’m sure Teddy will be in good hands should he need the surgery Ron but I totally understand your worries…I too was a basket case when Piper had his jaw surgery.
I have no doubt that Ann has provided you with the best information that will allow you to make the most informed decision should Teddy require the surgery.
Fingers crossed that he doesn’t need the surgery!
 
During my time of thinking about this upcoming Vet appointment I realized I have said this poem/saying every day since Teddy joined my family. It's kinda corny but it might make it more real if I share.

You are Teddy the Magnificent
and I love you so and always will
You are a good good good good boy
I'm so proud that you are part of my family
And you take such great care of me
Teddy you are the bestest boy
And I love you

Please excuse my what if moment but the countdown clock is ticking.
 
Ron Atkinson said:
During my time of thinking about this upcoming Vet appointment I realized I have said this poem/saying every day since Teddy joined my family. It's kinda corny but it might make it more real if I share.

You are Teddy the Magnificent
and I love you so and always will
You are a good good good good boy
I'm so proud that you are part of my family
And you take such great care of me
Teddy you are the bestest boy
And I love you

Please excuse my what if moment but the countdown clock is ticking.
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This is sweet and very special, Ron. We all have ways of telling them how much we love them. Mine are pretty silly but they don't care. I know Teddy feels every bit of your love for him. You're lucky to have each other.

He really shouldn't need to be picked up other than getting him in or out of the car, and if you can do that with your ramp that solves the problem. There's no reason he can't lie on the floor for any checking you need to do once he's home. He can do your three small steps too as long as it slowly on leash. He'll surprise you with his resilience!
 
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