Dog parks-
I've been going primarily to one small town dog park since Boots was 4 months old, so about 18 months.
To date, I've seen a handful of actual scraps, of which mine and maybe one other had a nip/bite.
I've never seen nor heard of any real fight or confrontation take place that was serious. However I have seen 90%+ dogs seeming to have loads and loads of fun, meeting other dogs and people, and just having a blast.
Some find a friend to wrestle with, others like to run and race each other, others just want to play fetch. And there are a number which seem content to hang by themselves or their people and watch the other dogs, like a couple of Shiba's which are naturally not very playful.
Very few seem to come in overly shy, or fearful. Even the pups that do, like mine did, very quickly learn real dog-dog socialization, and I've seen mine and others go from shy puppies to outgoing, happy go lucky pups who intermingle with dachshunds(sp) to a couple of pony sized Great Danes.
The BIG thing is, I haven't heard of any of them that are overly dog reactive, ie agressive fence behavior, or terrorizing the other neighborhood dogs. I would assume a good part of it is the dog socialization they learn at the park.
I've seen people bring in Rescue dogs who were timid, fearful and reflexively dog aggressive, and watched them become much more balanced and calm. And I should note that these owners did tell everyone about their dog, and kept to a distant corner of the park.
Dogs are nomadic, pack animal descendent. Is not taking them to the park because you fear possible confrontation in their best interests?
I could see this if you had a park like I do nearby which has lots of pitbulls and such who are poorly trained.
However outside of the rare case of a truely introverted and timid dog, I think dog parks are outstanding in allowing a dog to be a dog, with other dogs.
E-Collar-
And again, I would say using an e-collar properly is not shocking a dog.
Its far less 'painful' than zapping your spouse with static electricity. It is a tingle.
For me and mine though, having taught my dog to recall has potentially saved his life by keeping him from darting after cars, bikers, other dogs, and on and on. And that by itself has helped other training quite a bit as a side effect.
Having a dog that won't recall means having a dog on a leash at all time outside of a fenced yard. No dog park, and always on a leash outside.
I would find that very sad for the dog.
Really and truely, consider the possibility that modern day e-collars are not designed to 'zap' as much as to cause an noticable effect akin to a buzzing tingle or a minor annoyance if you up it a bit.
My dog from pup to now has hurt himself worse many, many, many times.
From falling down stairs, to running into sliding glass doors, to bumping his head, nose, feet etc on everything from doors, tables an on and on.
And guess what, he learned (mostly) from it and kept on keeping on. As do
most other things alive.
Most of the people I've met who seem to frown upon e-collars are women. The guys I've talked to about it, either have them (hunters), or were interested once I explained how they are properly used to provide feedback, and not zap the living cr_p out of them.
Not to tick off what appears to be the primarily female membership of the forum, however, I think you can 'mother' a dog too much, and thats why women seem to be averse to this 'negative' reinforcement method.
I wish +P reinforcement worked for everyone, however it doesn't.
Forcing a dog to be leashed whenever it is outside a fenced yard, and never being allowed to mingle and socialize, especially when dogs are such true social animals, because of our fear, just seems illogical.
BTW, I just happened to have the day off, so I reverted to my rambling, soapbox ranting. Not directed really at you, just at what I perceive to be a general problem. Was going to snip most of it, however since electrons are almost free....
I guess it's just a difference in situations. A dog park is not a place my dogs have ever or will ever go. I don't want to put them in a situation where they have to defend themselves constantly. It seems that more people ruin their dogs training and temperaments at dog parks. How many times do we hear "my dog got attacked..."
I have one dog that won't recall, but she won't recall to anybody. I won't shock her into it, so I just don't put her in a situation where a recall is necessary. If the choice is "teach dog a recall by shock" or "don't go to the dog park", that's an easy choice for me.