Toffee's Mom
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I will admit that I am having a bit of a problem following the advice here. I guess I can follow the overall concept, but I'm having trouble with a few of the specifics.
This is the part that I have the most trouble with. Since you can't really be sure when she will react (or not react), by treating before, aren't you then just tossing treats at her to keep her distracted? I'm not sure how that translates to teaching her appropriate (as apposed to inappropriate) behavior.
I hear ya, it's a huge shift, it's not easy at all.
I have a reactive Sheltie who I did things wrong with when he was young and made it worse... I worked hard at changing my whole outlook to get to where I am now... It's not easy because it changes the whole paradigm and outlook!
It's an exciting journey tho, and leaves you a lot of great discovery and a new, amazing bond with your pup.
First thing is observe, you CAN learn when she is going to do it, it's about body language, before she lunges she should have a sec of stillness, or before that some hard eye contact with the other dog, or if nervous lip licking, yawning, stiff body language...
IF you catch these moments and interrupt with a treat for NOT lunging (yet) before she can escalate you're golden! This is the change, it's not about 'correcting' it's about rewarding her for NOT lunging, it changes her association with the other dog, you're not encouraging the behaviour you don't want, you're catching and rewarding the behaviour you do want, which is when she's still not lunging lol. Think of saying, thanks for showing me you're uncomfortable and being proactive instead of waiting until she does it wrong and reacting with punishment