so I try to be respectful and not let Megan bark the entire time a person is doing yard work by our fence.
It's such a fine line isn't it?
We have neighbours on all 3 sides of our backyard. To the west is a quiet, single man with no pets. To the east is an elderly lady with an Airedale Terrier that barks sometimes (usually just a couple of barks when he's ready to be let back inside). To the south is a family of 3 with a cat.
Luckily, the fences on the east and west side of the yard are at least 6' high (higher in some parts) and are solid, so Miko and the Airedale have never laid eyes on each other and can't run the fence together.
Unfortunately, the fence across the back of the yard (the south) is only 4' high and can be seen through a bit. Those poor people can't do anything in their yard without Miko barking his fool head off at them.
During the summer, we'd be out working our yard and they'd be in their yard and we'd end up having to put Miko inside because his barking was getting embarassing. They were always very gracious and tried to make friends with Miko and said the barking wasn't a problem... but it was still horribly embarassing to me.
If the tables were turned and I couldn't be in my yard without the neighbours' dog barking it's head off at me... I'd be very inclined to complain. I don't pay astranomical mortgage payments to not be able to use my yard because of someone elses's dog!!!
So this is why debarking/bark-softening is somewhere in my consciousness and is a possible consideration. Not because any complaints have come in ... YET... but because I have enough respect and consideration for my neighbours to understand that regardless of what time of the day it is, no one wants to listen to a dog barking non-stop.
At the same time... Miko doesn't want to spend all day everyday locked in the house. He wants to enjoy his yard too. So what's the solution?
Bark-softening is NOT mutilation any more than a tonsilectomy is mutilation in a human. You could leave the tonsils in and the person would continue to suffer from tonsilitis on a regular basis and their life would be miserable. OR you can remove them and let the person enjoy life without the pain and inconvenience of painful tonsils.
The same goes for the dog. You can soften the dog's bark and let him go about life doing what comes naturally to him (and keep the neighbours happy at the same time) OR you can keep him locked up and/or punish him for barking.
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