Hi. I have a three or four-year-old neutered Sheltie. To make a long story short, he was left with me two years ago when some strangers asked me to dog-sit and never came back for him (they did eventually ask me if I'd like to keep him since they weren't moving back). I believe that he may have previously been abused because when I first got him he was afraid of everything (leaves on the sidewalk, the leash, all new people, etc.).
With regards to the fear, he's gotten a LOT better. However, as he has been getting less fearful, he's been getting more aggressive towards other dogs and people. In the last six months, he's completely changed as a dog. For example, he used to be great towards other dogs and he was gentle with every dog he met. Now, whenever he sees a dog he lunges and starts aggressively barking, and he's even walked up to a dog to sniff him and then suddenly bitten him.
It's the same sort of story with regards to people. He used to never bark, and while he was afraid of people, he would gradually warm up to them and was never fearful aggressive (he just would hide behind me). Now he just flips out randomly. He will chase young kids and nip and bark at them if they are running around. If someone wave their hand at him or makes any sort of motion that he thinks is directed at him, he flips out and will lunge towards them barking. When people come over to the house, he barks when they arrive, then will usually calm down and just want to play, and then will absolutely freaks out when they leave (goes nuts and tries to chase them). He will try to attack people through the windows of my car or my house, and will throw himself against the windows barking and snarling.
I work and go to school full-time, so he usually spends 5-8 hours alone Mon-Fri. We go for walks every day and I throw the frisbee for a half an hour or until he stops bringing it back because he's tired. I'm allowed to take him to work with me, but he randomly lunged at my boss last time he came in (boss came into talk to me and he was fine, boss walks by my office two minutes later and my dog throws himself at the door barking) and now I feel like I can't trust him (plus I don't want to lose my job because of my dog). Likewise, I used to take him around to stores that allowed pets (like pet food stores and plant nurseries and stuff) but again, I feel like I can't trust him with that anymore because of the number of times he's just randomly freaked and tried to attack a person or dog. We are basically no longer doing the things that we used to do together because he continually misbehaves.
Just to clarify, he's been through training (we are not taking classes right now but we were in a Show Novice class in November). He's incredibly obedient when it comes to regular training, and is very attentive towards me. When he does this barking thing, if he's on the leash I give him a correction (yank then release) and say NO, or grab his muzzle and say NO. If I say "No" in any other context (if he's begging or something), he usually immediately drops it. He really wants to please and doesn't misbehave in any other way. He just doesn't seem to care when I correct him for being aggressive.
I'm sorry for the long post, just very upset and frustrated. It's frankly embarrassing because I never thought I'd be the type of person who can't control their dog and that's what's happened with this aggression. Any suggestions or ideas?? A friend suggested that it might be because he thinks he's trying to protect me, so if that sounds right, how do I get him to understand that's not his job?
With regards to the fear, he's gotten a LOT better. However, as he has been getting less fearful, he's been getting more aggressive towards other dogs and people. In the last six months, he's completely changed as a dog. For example, he used to be great towards other dogs and he was gentle with every dog he met. Now, whenever he sees a dog he lunges and starts aggressively barking, and he's even walked up to a dog to sniff him and then suddenly bitten him.
It's the same sort of story with regards to people. He used to never bark, and while he was afraid of people, he would gradually warm up to them and was never fearful aggressive (he just would hide behind me). Now he just flips out randomly. He will chase young kids and nip and bark at them if they are running around. If someone wave their hand at him or makes any sort of motion that he thinks is directed at him, he flips out and will lunge towards them barking. When people come over to the house, he barks when they arrive, then will usually calm down and just want to play, and then will absolutely freaks out when they leave (goes nuts and tries to chase them). He will try to attack people through the windows of my car or my house, and will throw himself against the windows barking and snarling.
I work and go to school full-time, so he usually spends 5-8 hours alone Mon-Fri. We go for walks every day and I throw the frisbee for a half an hour or until he stops bringing it back because he's tired. I'm allowed to take him to work with me, but he randomly lunged at my boss last time he came in (boss came into talk to me and he was fine, boss walks by my office two minutes later and my dog throws himself at the door barking) and now I feel like I can't trust him (plus I don't want to lose my job because of my dog). Likewise, I used to take him around to stores that allowed pets (like pet food stores and plant nurseries and stuff) but again, I feel like I can't trust him with that anymore because of the number of times he's just randomly freaked and tried to attack a person or dog. We are basically no longer doing the things that we used to do together because he continually misbehaves.
Just to clarify, he's been through training (we are not taking classes right now but we were in a Show Novice class in November). He's incredibly obedient when it comes to regular training, and is very attentive towards me. When he does this barking thing, if he's on the leash I give him a correction (yank then release) and say NO, or grab his muzzle and say NO. If I say "No" in any other context (if he's begging or something), he usually immediately drops it. He really wants to please and doesn't misbehave in any other way. He just doesn't seem to care when I correct him for being aggressive.
I'm sorry for the long post, just very upset and frustrated. It's frankly embarrassing because I never thought I'd be the type of person who can't control their dog and that's what's happened with this aggression. Any suggestions or ideas?? A friend suggested that it might be because he thinks he's trying to protect me, so if that sounds right, how do I get him to understand that's not his job?