Oh Hugo! I'm so sorry! That has got to be a horrible situation to be in. I've been through my share of medical issues with the dogs (Gio especially) and it has never crossed my mind to get rid of him or to not treat him. So I know where you are coming from. I'm sure you will find a way to work this out for your pup and hopefully the sticker price was just a shock to the gf and she will come around to help out eventually.
There are funding options available. Here is a list I found that details some of the organizations that can help financially. Some may not apply, but I just cut/paste the whole list to save time and effort.
In Memory of Magic (IMOM) is dedicated to insuring that no companion animal has to be euthanized simply because their caretaker is financially challenged.
http://www.imom.org
IMOM, Inc
PO Box 282
Cheltenham, MD 20623
Phone (866)-230-2164 Fax (301)-599-1852
United Animal Nations established the LifeLine fund in 1997 to aid companion animals in times of life-threatening emergencies when their caregivers, with low or no incomes, are unable to afford the entire cost of treatment.
http://uan.org/lifeline
United Animal Nations
P.O. Box 188890
Sacramento, California 95818
Telephone: (916) 429 2457 fax: (916) 429 2456
Help-A-Pet is a nonprofit organization, which provides financial assistance for the medical care of pets whose guardians are unable to afford the expense
http://www.help-a-pet.org
Help-A-Pet
P. O. Box 244
Hinsdale, Illinois 60521
Telephone: (630) 986-9504 fax: (630) 986-9141
HandicappedPets.com
http://www.handicappedpets.com
"Fr om time to time, HandicappedPets.com recognizes a caretaker of handicapped pets that need some special attention, and a little extra help. There are those who are so selflessly dedicated to their animal families that they give up a little more than they can afford."
American Animal Hospital Association
http://www.aahahelpingpets.org
"The heartbreak happens all too often ? a pet owner is unable to
afford treatment and their sick or injured companion animal pays the price. If the owner is elderly, disabled or on a fixed income, the
cost of care may be too much of a stretch for their pocketbook.
Perhaps they have been victimized by crime, property loss or a job
layoff and are experiencing a temporary financial hardship ? making it too difficult to afford pet care. And some animals, brought to clinics by Good Samaritans, don't have an owner to pay for treatment. Whatever the situation, the fact remains the same: When sick or injured animals are unable to receive veterinary care, they suffer. Through the AAHA Helping Pets Fund, veterinary care is possible for sick or injured pets even if they have been abandoned or if their owner is experiencing financial hardship."
Angels 4 Animals
http://www.Angels4Animals.org
"Angels4Animals, a non-profit organization and a program of Inner
Voice Community Services, has a mission to serve as the guardian
angel of animals whose caretakers find themselves in difficult
financial situations. At Angels4Animals we believe that animal owners should not have to say goodbye to the animals that they love. Our work is accomplished in conjunction with veterinary clinics across the country, eager to assist as many animals, and their owners, as possible. Our services range from financial aid to complete treatment to those pets and pet owners in need."
Care Credit
http://www.carecredit.com
A credit card company for health care, including veterinary care.
"CareCredit, the leader in patient/client financing, has helped more
than 3 million patients/clients get the treatment or procedures they needed and wanted. With a comprehensive range of plan options, for treatment or procedure fees from $1 to over $25,000, we offer a plan and a low monthly payment to fit comfortably into almost every budget."
The Pet Fund
http://thepetfund.com
"The Pet Fund is a registered 501(c)3 nonprofit association that
provides financial assistance to owners of domestic animals who need urgent veterinary care. Often animals are put down or suffer
needlessly because their owners cannot afford expensive surgery or emergency vet visits. Companion animal owners must often make the difficult decision to put an animal down or neglect urgent medical needs because of the costs involved. The purpose of the Pet Fund is to work towards a future where decisions about companion animal medical care need never be made on the basis of cost."
UK Assistance with Veterinary Bills
http://www.petloversonline.co.uk
"Most of us can cope with the financial commitment involved in the
day to day care of our pets. However, how many of us come out in a
cold sweat when our pet is ill or injured and we know we have to take it to the vet? Most of us are fortunate enough to be able to afford it but, some of us who love our animals dearly cannot. Unfortunately we do not have a PDSA or a RSPCA Centre within our area, but there are a few charities who may be able to help."
Feline Veterinary Emergency Assistance Programs provides financial assistance for emergency medical care for cats.
http://www.fveap.org
FVEAP
FVEAP
http://www.fveap.org
T he Feline Veterinary Emergency Assistance Program is a nonprofit 501 (c)(3) organization that provides financial assistance for emergency medical care to cat and kitten guardians who are unable to afford veterinary services to save their companions when life-threatening illness or injury strikes.
1641 Elizabeth Lane
Yuba City, CA 95993
Fax: 888-301-4264
DISEASE-SPECIFIC
IMOM Diabetic Pet Fund
http://www.imom.org/diabetic-pets
Diabetic Pet Fund
http://www.petdiabetes.net/fund/
Special Needs Cats
http://www.catsincrisis.org/crisisFund.html
There are also some state/region specific options.
STATE AND COUNTRY ORGANIZATIONS
Arizona
The Southern Arizona Veterinary Medical Association may be able to help with vet bills. Call 325-0311 to request an application or to get more information.
California
Labrador Harbor is committed to providing assistance to Labrador Retrievers of all ages, in permanent homes or within a California based non-profit rescue organization. http://www.labradorharbor.org/guidelines.html
Actors and Others for Animals Assists with emergency medical treatment and crisis aid (Hollywood, CA) http://www.actorsandothers.com/
Georgia
Pets are Loving Support Assists people with HIV/AIDS to care for their companion animals (Atlanta, GA) http://www.palsatlanta.org/guidelines.htm
Save-A-Life, Inc. Assistance with emergency medical care of rescued and fostered animals (Savannah, GA) http://www.savealifepets.org/index.html
Massachusetts
The Travis Fund at Tufts School of Veterinary Medicine for pets being treated at their facility. http://www.tufts.edu/vet/gift/p&p.html
New Jersey
God’s Creatures Ministry (Wayne, NJ) http://www.all-creatures.org/gcm/help-cf.html
New York
NY S.A.V.E, Inc., is a non-profit organization dedicated to the aid and assistance of low-income pet owners residing in one of the five boroughs of New York City, whose pet is in need of emergency veterinary care. http://www.nysave.org/
Ohio
Good Sam Fund The MedVet Good SAM (Special Assistance and Memorial Fund) was established to create financial aid for sick or injured animals who either are stray or client-owned animals in special circumstances. (Worthington, OH) http://www.goodsamfund.org/
Pennsylvania
Animal Care and Welfare (Pittsburgh, PA) http://www.animalcareandwelfare.com/
Texas
Canyon Lake Animal Shelter C.L.A.S.S. Program for low income residents (Startzville, TX)
Washington DC
PETS-DC is dedicated to improving the health and well being of people living with HIV/AIDS or other disabling conditions and their companion pets at no cost to individuals in the Metropolitan Washington area. http://www.gvtc.com/~pets/programs.htm
Canada
Animal Cancer Therapy Subsidization Society (Alberta) http://www.actssalberta.org/
The Farley Foundation (Ontario) http://www.farleyfoundation.org/welcome.html
United Kingdom
UK Assistance with Veterinary Bills http://www.petloversonline.co.uk/financial.htm
Blind Dogs
IMOM Blind Dogs Fund:
http://www.imom.org/fa/contact.htm