This is when I do believe in pack respect between human and dog. I would feed them either side of the gate with some distance between them and stand there watching for any body language. As soon as the start of anything - like a stiffening of the body, head turn etc - happened, I would growl, CUT IT OUT. You don't have to be loud, just firm. Usually it is one that instigates the problem. I would worry that this will escalate to toys, attention from you, greeting at the door etc. They need to learn that you are the decision maker. I am all for positive reinforcement but that doesn't mean I will let the dogs make a decision about how we are all going to live together. Make sure you praise the dogs if they look at you.
Amen!
Could not agree more.They need to know who is boss,and it sometimes needs to be clear from the get go.
