How did you get him to NOT sleep on the bed or couch? And how do you not allow the cuteness to get to you? lol.
Yeah, the cute factor killed me. This is honestly really important, and I was going against everything I know when I started letting him sleep on the bed

. It was hard for me too, because he loves cuddling up against my back, and he's so darn cute. I had to do it with gentle firmness and positive reinforcement - that's the only way I could keep him off without feeling guilty. Everytime he went up on the bed, I shook my head and gently said no, and then used my body to move into him to claim the bed as my own. Sometimes I would lightly tug on the collar to get him off the bed, and direct him towards his dog bed. I made sure he was always in the same room as me (fairly easy since he follows me everywhere), so I knew what furniture he was on immediately. If I couldn't supervise him, he was in his kennel so he didn't have any opportunity to go on furniture uninvited. It took about 4 days before he stopped trying. I'm sure if he was invited, he'd be back on the furniture in a heartbeat, but I've committed to myself that I'm not going to get into that habit again.
Can you expand on what you do? I mean, what is "work"? For example, I am not making Koji sit before we go out, however, I think he associates sit with getting fed and running agility, so it actually makes him more alert. I usually wait him out until his body shows that he's relaxed. Thoughts? Should I try something else?
Work, for me, is a dog following through on any behaviour I request. Typical work behaviours might include sits, downs, stays, stands, spins, turns, touch hand, heel, wait, back up, shake a paw, circle backwards, jump through my arms, retrieve something, walk on his hind legs, march, etc. It's anything that you've taught your dog, even if you just taught it for fun. It creates a transfer of leadership. For example, a month ago, if my dogs wanted to go outside, I would just open the door, and off they would go. Now, a typical scenario would be they have to drop before I open the door, hold a stay while I step outside to unlatch the screen door, release only when I give the command. While they are out there, I might at some point do a quick recall with a jackpot reward. If I'm out there with them, I might do a quick heel pattern or sit stay or a few tricks so they understand the rules are the same in the backyard as they are in public. When they want back in I might give them the signal to take a few steps backwards or sit before I let them in. Every interaction I have with them now includes work - before I open their kennels they have to sit or drop, and they aren't allowed to step out until I release them. They have to do a trick before I fill the food bowl, or do a stay as I fill it. It sounds really complicated, but it's not. It adds about 10 - 30 seconds each time I add work into my routine. The hardest thing is ensuring it becomes a habit - I have to constantly remind myself, but it's already getting close to automatic.
What does hand feeding do? Would doing NILIF work as well?
Handfeeding is a great tool. The idea is that it ensures the dog knows the food is coming from you - the bowl doesn't automatically fill up on it's own. You are a foodsource, therefore you have value. As I mentioned in a previous post, I found my dog didn't eat enough with hand feeding. Instead, I've started to run my hand through his dog food when it's in the bowl - that way my scent is still there with the food, so he makes that association. Whenever I have a major behavioural problem with a dog I'm training, I tell the owner to start handfeeding - many of them noticed a difference in their dogs behaviour within a few days.
I love NILIF, when used in a modified format and with a lot of common sense by people who have their dogs' best interest at heart. Some people advocate an extreme of NILIF that I would say borderlines on abuse. Most of the steps I described in my first weeks goals would be considered part of a modified NILIF program.
I do need to work on his agility training more, so that should be "working more".
Absolutely! It doesn't have to be formal obedience - it can be agility work, rally work, treibball work, freestyle work, tricks....Kikopup on Youtube has a lot of fantastic little tricks you can teach your dog just to keep them mentally stimulated.
I was wondering if you'd be willing to expand on what you're doing.
I hope this helped! PM me if you have any questions
