Cindy
Premium Member
My 2 cents....
Gavin had cancer at 10, went through surgery and radiation and all. We knew it would come back, just not when.
It made me realize that EVERY day with him was a blessing and not guaranteed.
And that I was literally his life, his world. everything revolved around me, he only got the experiences I gave to him, went to the places I took him.
So I focused on doing things with him he enjoyed as much as possible, and just being with him as much as I could (he got me though COVID isolation).
Even when his mobility issues arose at 12, I did everything I could to treasure the time we had left. That turned into 5 years.
He lived to 17 (retrospectively, the cancer came back at 15-16 as he had some internal bleeding episodes the last year), so there was a lot of treasuring
A LOT of treasuring (as my many threads on SN can attest).
So my advice would be to focus on being with your sweet girl and celebrate her. the rest is just noise that you can't control.
Gavin had cancer at 10, went through surgery and radiation and all. We knew it would come back, just not when.
It made me realize that EVERY day with him was a blessing and not guaranteed.
And that I was literally his life, his world. everything revolved around me, he only got the experiences I gave to him, went to the places I took him.
So I focused on doing things with him he enjoyed as much as possible, and just being with him as much as I could (he got me though COVID isolation).
Even when his mobility issues arose at 12, I did everything I could to treasure the time we had left. That turned into 5 years.
He lived to 17 (retrospectively, the cancer came back at 15-16 as he had some internal bleeding episodes the last year), so there was a lot of treasuring
A LOT of treasuring (as my many threads on SN can attest).
So my advice would be to focus on being with your sweet girl and celebrate her. the rest is just noise that you can't control.