corbinam
Moderator
I had to chuckle at this post Ashley, mostly because this is how we all sounded, what, 9 years ago? Starting out in agility. How many of us posted about how scary AKC was because we heard about how mean everyone is and yeah, it basically scared many of us. Then we started competing in AKC, and even USDAA (where I was told it's worse than AKC because they're super competitive) and yet, we enjoyed it. We met some AWESOME people. Some, not so much. You started to realize that people would give unsolicited advice but you learned to ask people you trusted before changing your training.
So, hang in there, realize that yes, you're a noob. Maybe some will be mean because they might just be a bit jealous and worried that once Elise matures, she'll start beating their dog...and others will be super helpful. You'll eventually find your "conformation group", just like you did with agility. Remember what it was like back in the day with agility, realize you're older, stronger, and know when to take advice, when not to, and when to ask your mentor.
Elise is so adorable, especially in her coyote stage. I miss Koji's coyote stage, haha. She's going to be gorgeous either way though. Good luck and keep your chin up!
Cheryl you’re so right! It feels like so long ago I forgot.
What an awesome post—thanks so much for reminding me of this
