Thanks for the thread, helpful. I'd like to use the clicker training...seems good. Been thinking about name & today when he was 'humping the air' again, a song ran through my head. Elvis Presley's, 'Hunk O' Burning Love.' I laughed out loud, realizing this little dog has gorgeous black hair & the name 'Elvis' may suit him perfectly. He's so swoony looking! Plus,the name means, "Noble Friend."
RE:behavior...he's getting better each day. Now he runs to door w/Maltese to greet whoever is coming in. Friendly, not fearful. Still taking our time. Follows everyone to some degree wanting attention. Went downstairs in son's room, got in bed (after being invited) w/him & allowed petting.
ohhhhh how lovely!!!
See, giving him time and room to make choices, excellent outcome...
Continue to look for signs of stress/warning signs and let him back off at that point.
LOVE hunk of burning love, you know that's his name in my head now... lolllll
Clicker training is amaaaayyyyzzzzingggggg...
I think I have a link here somewhere... of some of my first few attempts..
http://s9.photobucket.com/albums/a72/LadyWolff/?action=view¤t=January102.mp4
That was how I started to teach him to go to his mat... I didn't lure, just waited til he had all paws on it and clicked... after they learn what a click is which takes for a Sheltie about 5 seconds, lol You use this as a tool when they do something to click that very moment they do what you like, then they get a treat for it, this will make them think, oh what did I just do that got that click, let me try something again!
Here I use the word YES, instead of a clicker, which really is the same idea... cuz I couldn't find a clicker at that time anywhere, (don't even get me started on how many crappy prong collars they were selling but not a clicker in sight.. but I digress)... I lured him with treat into position and had lousy timing

Beauty is you can't mess up too bad, and clicker and positive training have NO negative effects if u do get it wrong, really!! I 'labelled' it before he knew what to do here, and my timing again sucks...
Normally you want to wait til the behaviour is SOLID before you add the queue... But hey, I was learning, so no edits here LOL
http://s9.photobucket.com/albums/a72/LadyWolff/?action=view¤t=MOV01081.mp4
then
http://s9.photobucket.com/albums/a72/LadyWolff/?action=view¤t=MOV01082.mp4
then
an OOOPS, but no correction, just no treat and lots of laughter
http://s9.photobucket.com/albums/a72/LadyWolff/?action=view¤t=MOV01083.mp4
then done for a day...
http://s9.photobucket.com/albums/a72/LadyWolff/?action=view¤t=MOV01084.mp4
Three tries, that was all I did and I had a happy dog who was eager to learn new things.
Here I was trying to teach him watch ME instead of the ball, which he is obsessed with, lol... This helps in agility or when I try and get him to pay attention to me... all kinds of uses... It's not perfect but I used me kicking the Ball as a reward instead of treats
http://s9.photobucket.com/albums/a72/LadyWolff/Toffee/?action=view¤t=March011.mp4
http://s9.photobucket.com/albums/a72/LadyWolff/Toffee/?action=view¤t=watch.mp4
Anyhow a few ideas of how I started to dabble with it, never looked back since. lol
Also got better at it, hahaha
But no harm done trying!!