update - sorry a bit long
Here is a little update:
On the positive side she is getting better at focusing on me with people at a good distance away.
On the negative side: in front of our condo she is barking every time I bring her out and that is even if no one is there. I think our front street is just too much for her to handle (it's a busy street with multiple 6 unit condos) but I need to take her out of the front door (our only exit) every time she needs to do her business... there is NO way around this. She just seems to be on such a high stress level and it makes me really sad.
But, I won't let this discourage me. I really want to do all that I can to help Kyara so I am getting equipped with information about reactive dogs.
I ordered the following books:
- "On Talking Terms with Dogs: Calming Signals" by Rugaas, Turid;
- "Scaredy Dog: Understanding and Rehabilitating Your Reactive Dog" by Brown, Ali;
I watched some videos on youtube more specifically ones addressing reactive dogs by Davidthedogtrainer.
And in order to get some specific training DVDs, I joined BowowFlix.com (which was discussed in this thread
http://www.sheltieforums.com/showthread.php?t=10771) awesome tip by the way

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The first DVDs I will be getting are about BAT - Behavior Adjustment Training
from Grisha Stewart which I think might really help me.
Does anyone have any experience with any of these materials or suggestions of other useful books or dvds? Does anyone have any tips about addressing our front door issue?
I guess one thing I really need to do is ask people to come in a more quiet street or park to help out with the training. That way they could pass for strangers without being unpredictable like random people on the street and I could truly control the distance at which I want to practice with Kyara and eventually get them to leave treats for her, walk in certain directions... etc.
But I sort of feel that my friends are not enough into dog training and too busy for that to help me *sigh* and my family is way to familiar to Kyara so it wouldn't be as efficient as getting someone she knows less. Any suggestions on this?
Thanks again for your help!
P.s: I did get my boyfriend to film me walking Kyara and doing some training to evaluate what I can modify or what triggers her most

. I plan on filming another walk in a few weeks to see the progress.