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Even after the ugliest of runs, I've never had anyone be rude to me. Even some of the best handlers out there have said at worst "If you could get a little more control, he'd be an amazing dog!" which I still consider a compliment to him and an encouragement to me to work with him more.
There are great people out there who are supportive and tactful. And there are those who are downright rude. I have heard people say loudly enough so the handler walking off the course could hear, "they should quit while they're ahead" or "they shouldn't be doing agility" or "that was the worst run I have ever seen". Yes, I have heard it. Scared the heck out of me when I started AKC because I don't want to have a bad run and hear that...even if it's true.
If a person came up to me when I still had my adrenaline flowing and told me that my Q wasn't a good Q or I somehow didn't deserve it, I'd probably hurt someone.
IMHO, I think you're generalizing my comments here and applying them as you want. I set up a specific example and even that, you responded to as if I didn't say it was a friend who said something specific, not "a person". If saying "dirty Q" in your mind means "you didn't deserve it" then we definitely have different ideas of the definition and until we define the word, neither of us will understand one another.
So with that, I'll define "dirty Q" for anyone who is misunderstanding me. A dirty Q that me and my friends talk about just means it was an ugly run. That you had a lot of mistakes or dog made a ton of mistakes, but you still Q'd. You pulled it off, got them on track, but it definitely didn't look pretty. If anything a dirty Q means you had to work harder in the ring to get that Q because the dog was all over the place. If all of you don't agree with this, then I totally understand why you feel saying it is the most horrible thing in the world. If you do agree with it, then I'm curious, why would you get offended if someone said you got a dirty Q? Especially if it's a friend?
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