thank you all so so so so so so much!
I had to report back to all of you with some wonderful news of progress!
The day after the boxer incident, my friend offered to have her dog who is a german short haired pointer meet jasper. I was really once again nervous cause her dog is a hyper crazy one, but i was like ok, i'll give it a try on neutral territory and we will see how it goes, if he freaks out thats it and i'm taking him out of the situation.
we decided to meet at petco, and there were dog training classes going on so there were like 20 something dogs in total in the store. at first jasper was doing his growl and hide thing but nothing crazy so i just had him walk past the dogs that bugged him and when he was good i treated him. ( i made sure i had a whole bag of cut up pieces of treats). So finally my friend gets there and jasper and her dog abby met... and became INSTANT friends! he wouldn't leave her side!
Then the dog trainer suggested i just sit with jasper by all the dogs in the class and treat him for being around them so it would be pleasant for him, which i did. at the end of the class all the people came over to meet him with their dogs. Jasper met a doberman, a teeny tiny beagle spaniel mix (which out of all of them scared him once haha!) and a rottie which he scared! and a few other dogs as well! i was so proud i could have cried! :sadsmile:
So i wanted to end the petco experience on a good note so the last dog that he reacted good with was it, and then we left.
My friend wanted to walk our pups together, so abby and jasper could hang out more, which was fantastic! the whole walk jasper was crying to get abby's attention and was trying to get her to chase him! we walked them to a field the was all fenced in and i let jasper off the leash... he comes when called and was being fantastic and avoiding distractions. Abby got let off the leash, caught a scent and went into hunting dog mode, which sent jasper into herding dog mode because i'm guessing he knew my friend was trying to get abby back. So off goes little jasper, barking his fool head off trying to round up a dog that is so into following a scent she doesnt know he exists..
but they chased eachother and had so much fun!!! and when i finally got home he plopped down next to me on the couch and kissed my face like he was saying thank you for a lovely day...
i was SOOOOO happy... thank you all so so so so so much.. i'm going to continue the route i'm going very carefully and have more abby playdates!