Introducing a very Shy Puppy into A New Home?

Heal up Monet and Sca says if you get the cone of shame just bash things with it :eek2: his was totally trashed after a few days, full of dirt all bent up and scratched.
 
LOL! I'll bet the cone of shame makes a great weapon. I've heard of using it as something to sweep people off their feet.
 
Glad to hear that Monet is home safe and sound :biggrin2:

fingers crossed that he does not touch his incision and escapes the cone of shame :cool:
 
Thanks so much! It looks like Monet is going to have to wear the cone of shame. Last night, he was trying to lick the incision almost constantly. I finally got him to stop before I fell asleep, but I don't know if he continued to or not. Right now he's sleeping and not trying, but I know once he wakes up he will start again.

Now the question is... How long should he wear the cone of shame? His stitches come out in two weeks.
 
Sca wore his until the stitches were healed looking and not red plus a day or two since he got his out quicker than Monet's schedule. I could have taken it off a bit earlier but figured better safe than sorry and he was mostly over it after the first day (then started to bash things on day 3 :rolleyes2:)
 
Well, poor Monet has been banished to the cone of shame when I'm gone. He spent most of the night keeping me up worried because he kept licking at his incisions. So we took him to petsmart and were so rude we made him walk around the store with the cone on so he could get used to the shame and humiliation in a public setting.

I think he's planning some kind of revenge... I feel so bad for him. He probably wondered why we kept laughing as he walked around the store...
 
Hello suristo,

I just wanted to express how inspiring it is to read about Monet overcoming so many challenges. I adopted a shy sheltie around the same time you did and if anything our situation has gotten worse in our weeks together. I was beginning to lose faith. But reading stories like yours gives me hope again. Thank you for sharing, and I'm so glad Monet was found. :)
 
Hello suristo,

I just wanted to express how inspiring it is to read about Monet overcoming so many challenges. I adopted a shy sheltie around the same time you did and if anything our situation has gotten worse in our weeks together. I was beginning to lose faith. But reading stories like yours gives me hope again. Thank you for sharing, and I'm so glad Monet was found. :)

Welcome to the forum! We encourage to make a thread in the "Say Hello" thread and introduce yourself and your Sheltie.

Dani
 
Welcome to the forum! I'm so glad my journey can help. It has been both amazing and frustrating, happy and depressing, and it's always been give and take.

Take for instance, today. He's still not settled in to my apartment. My roommate's dog still scares the bejeesus out of him. He's finally beginning to settle in my room, where it's safe from the dog making a lot of noise and my roommate, who also terrifies him for some reason. But in my room he actually started coming out of his crate a little and is slowly but surely making steps in the right direction. I have to think about how long it took him to adjust to the house, and just think of it as bringing him to a whole new place and hope he will get used to it. It's just sad to see him terrified and shaking in his crate, especially after seeing the leaps and bounds we made.

But, I went to a few pet stores today (the Barkery, where I get my Orijen, Incredipet, and Petsmart) and he was nearly a social butterfly. He sniffed everyone he came near, until they tried to pet him and then he booked it out of there unless they had chicken. I'm trying to teach him the world means chicken and good things, lol.

Went to puppy class and he was great. We were able to work on a lot of things and he's improved in his heel and we are getting better at wait and stay. It's been a challenge to work on obedience with a dog that has such a low confidence level - when I taught Baxter it was 12 years ago and he was a very confident, happy, wanting to please dog. So this has been an interesting experience.

I really, really wish I'd had Monet as a puppy.

The good news is, I am continuing on into advanced class after we graduate intermediate. And then I can continue to take the class as many times as I want, at no extra charge. It will keep allowing me to socialize and work with him in different groups at different times and work on making our foundation more and more rock solid. And that is exciting. Today Petsmart was buzzing with excitement and tons of people. And he was able to keep focus and actually do sit and down stays with people and dogs coming to the left and right of him. Granted it was only 5-6 seconds before I released him, but considering before he would be freaking out and trying to hide, it's a definite improvement!!

Tell me more about your pup, Jess? How old? I really hope you start to see more improvement. I completely understand the sense of it not working, I have felt like a complete and utter failure so many times during our journey.
 
It's been a while since I posted, I have to admit I forgot my password. I am logged in on this computer, so I finally got back online. :)

Monet has improved in areas, still working on them in others. I am exposing him to as much as possible, taking him everywhere I can. He is afraid of floor and box fans, but he's trying to get over them.

If you take him outside, he comes alive. He bounces and plays and runs and leaps in the air. He's at home in my parent's house, but still hides in my apartment.

He's learned a new little series of tricks, including giving me his paw, begging when you ask, and I'm trying to teach him to jump into my arms. He can jump in my lap from the ground and he will bounce in the air if you ask. I'm just trying to work him out of his shell. He's also got a longer down stay going, his recall is getting better, and he is learning to wait at the door and not bolt out. His stays come and go - but he will sit without any treats whatsoever. He also is learning to stand on command.

I truly hope one day I can have him off leash, even if it's just in a controlled environment such as the obedience ring. But, if I can't, I at least love the pup. He's turned in to such a ham when he gets in the mood - he flops over on his back, turns his head up, and looks at me with both ears pointed back. It's so adorable. He comes alive at puppy class too - we are now nearly finished with advanced class. I think I will try and find an actual obedience class after this so we can work on more advanced stuff. I still want to do agility with him, also.

The fear is still there, but there are longer periods without it kicking in. I know it will always be a small part in his mind, even if it was a perfect world and he became bolder. I just hope it eventually only becomes a tiny part, an afterthought. One can hope, right?
 
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