Need Help with my new sheltie puppy

I agree, you have to ignore the whining and crying as long as you know he's not doing it because he has to go potty. First of all, use treats when putting them in their crate, you always want it to be a positive thing to go into the crate. Try to have them go into the crate on their own free will by luring them with a treat, and associate it with a command (we say "kennel" in a very upbeat tone of voice). Then leave the door open and let them walk back out. Repeat this often, then close the door when you do have to leave them in it, giving a treat right after closing it. Once they associate the crate with a treat, they are less likely to cry when shut in. The first few weeks we had Bailey, the first couple of nights he'd do his business outside first, and then cry right after we put him in his crate, so we knew it was for attention. We ignored it, and it took maybe 15 - 30 minutes before he got quiet and went to sleep. Then the next night, it was shorter that he'd quiet down and go to sleep. Then shorter, then no whining at all. However, it was like having a newborn baby that woke in the middle of the night for the first month or so. And it was because he had to go potty. He'd make it until about 4am, I'd let him out only for potty (no playing) then right back in the crate. After a month or so he'd make it until 6am which is when my husband gets up for work anyways. Now he's 6 months old and he lets us sleep in on the weekends until 8am!

We are BAD puppy parents and did leave him in the crate for 8 hours. Unfortunately we both work very far from home and couldn't come home at lunch, and all of our neighbors work during the day too, and we couldn't afford doggie daycare. However we kept an old towel in the crate in case he had to go, it would absorb the urine, and had the crate large enough that he could lay down in a clean area if he did pee. That was because we got him at 7 weeks old and we knew this would happen, I did not expect him to hold it all day and we'd just change the towel to a clean one if he did wet. He did wet his crate until he was about 3 1/2 months old, then he started to be able to hold it after that point. Now the towel is gone and has been replaced with a nice fleece dog bed, and he has no problems holding it. We've done it this way with all our dogs, I know it's not the ideal situation to let them wet their crate, but it's always worked for us and our dogs have always still loved their crates and became crate trained (no potty in crate) as soon as they were physically able. They both RUN into them as soon as you say "kennel" and will sleep in them or go to them for security even when the doors are wide open.
 
I forgot to mention that we have a 4 1/2 month old puppy. The first night we had him, I slept with ear plugs, and the 2nd night my husband slept with earplugs. There wasn't that much whining and luckily the puppy could hold it all night at 8 weeks, but not all puppy bladders are the same. You might want to buy some ear plugs, if nothing else you could offer them to any neighbors that can't sleep. I can't imagine that Max makes enough noise to actually wake up the neighbors. It is important not to give him much attention when he makes noise, it will only train him to make more noise, and be louder when he wants attention. Yes, crate training will help a lot.
 
I agree, you have to ignore the whining and crying as long as you know he's not doing it because he has to go potty. First of all, use treats when putting them in their crate, you always want it to be a positive thing to go into the crate. Try to have them go into the crate on their own free will by luring them with a treat, and associate it with a command (we say "kennel" in a very upbeat tone of voice). Then leave the door open and let them walk back out. Repeat this often, then close the door when you do have to leave them in it, giving a treat right after closing it. Once they associate the crate with a treat, they are less likely to cry when shut in. The first few weeks we had Bailey, the first couple of nights he'd do his business outside first, and then cry right after we put him in his crate, so we knew it was for attention. We ignored it, and it took maybe 15 - 30 minutes before he got quiet and went to sleep. Then the next night, it was shorter that he'd quiet down and go to sleep. Then shorter, then no whining at all. However, it was like having a newborn baby that woke in the middle of the night for the first month or so. And it was because he had to go potty. He'd make it until about 4am, I'd let him out only for potty (no playing) then right back in the crate. After a month or so he'd make it until 6am which is when my husband gets up for work anyways. Now he's 6 months old and he lets us sleep in on the weekends until 8am!

We are BAD puppy parents and did leave him in the crate for 8 hours. Unfortunately we both work very far from home and couldn't come home at lunch, and all of our neighbors work during the day too, and we couldn't afford doggie daycare. However we kept an old towel in the crate in case he had to go, it would absorb the urine, and had the crate large enough that he could lay down in a clean area if he did pee. That was because we got him at 7 weeks old and we knew this would happen, I did not expect him to hold it all day and we'd just change the towel to a clean one if he did wet. He did wet his crate until he was about 3 1/2 months old, then he started to be able to hold it after that point. Now the towel is gone and has been replaced with a nice fleece dog bed, and he has no problems holding it. We've done it this way with all our dogs, I know it's not the ideal situation to let them wet their crate, but it's always worked for us and our dogs have always still loved their crates and became crate trained (no potty in crate) as soon as they were physically able. They both RUN into them as soon as you say "kennel" and will sleep in them or go to them for security even when the doors are wide open.

Thanks Baileysmom, Whenever I sleep with my Max is because i didnt want him to make so much noise at night. As we live in an apartment with many neighbours, Max's cries and howling will disturb our neighbours sleeping, that is why right now i am sleeping with him and always have him in my sight. Max's still undergoing potty training, We are trying our best to make sure max get trained.

My wife and I are bad puppy parents too as the first few days we left him alone in our apartment all by himself. Now my wife and myself rotate to come home for lunch just to company max.
 
I forgot to mention that we have a 4 1/2 month old puppy. The first night we had him, I slept with ear plugs, and the 2nd night my husband slept with earplugs. There wasn't that much whining and luckily the puppy could hold it all night at 8 weeks, but not all puppy bladders are the same. You might want to buy some ear plugs, if nothing else you could offer them to any neighbors that can't sleep. I can't imagine that Max makes enough noise to actually wake up the neighbors. It is important not to give him much attention when he makes noise, it will only train him to make more noise, and be louder when he wants attention. Yes, crate training will help a lot.

Max noise is quite loud at night and furthermore we stay in an apartment block where our neighbours is jus right next door. That is why my main concern whenever i comfort max is not to let him disturb our neighbours as they also have to work in the morning.
 
We brought our sheltie puppy home at 8 weeks old. The first night he whimpered and cried so much - clearly he wanted to be up on the bed and getting our attention! I'm sure this is normal in a strange house, where everything is different to them and they are away from their litter for the first time. The second night was only slightly better. Once he settled into the family and got his routine, he soon learned how to sleep in his own bed at night. It only took a few days for him to get settled.

(Of course, once he is big enough to jump up on the bed himself - that is another matter altogether!)

Keep his cage/basket in your bedroom at night - that way he feels close to you already and wont need to bother you repeatedly for attention. The whining will stop - consider this his period of adjustment. Tell your neighbors you are sorry for any noise, but it WILL get better at night time very soon.

When we first started crate training our puppy, he would whine for aaaages. It was very difficult but we just had to ignore it. He's not in any pain, its more like a toddler crying about how unfair it is that hes not getting his way.

However its not ideal that you're out for 8 hours a day, especially when he's this young. That time will really drag on for a little puppy. You're right to exercise him before you go to work, and then again as soon as you get home. Really make the effort to get home at lunch time if you can, or have a friend go round to play with the puppy. I do think this will affect his development and personality as he goes through this learning stage.

This will be the most trying time for you. There was a brief scary moment when we first brought our pup home when I thought we'd done the wrong thing getting a puppy, since they demand SO much attention. But he'll grow up very quick and that pressure will ease. Now I feel so lucky to have him, I couldn't give him up for the world.

Keep smiling - and keep doing the best you can - it'll turn out good!
 
When we got our pup we kept the cage in the corner of our bedroom for the first week and listened to her when she would whine (yes the first week is like having a baby, no sleep!) But as long as the whining was a reasonable decibal we completely ignored her, maybe just looking up to make sure she wasn't tangled in her blankets or anything. She stopped whining after a few nights and we were able to move her out into the living room. Now she always sleeps through the night with no problem. Note though, if he ever starts making a huge fuss it probably means he either has to go or already has (Pidge CATERWALLED when she went in her crate as a baby) never ignore the huge fuss! Also if he's very small he probably has to go out at least once during the night. Good luck with your baby, he's just missing his littermates but he'll get used to it, maybe put some towels around his cage to make it more den-like.
 
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