DianeP
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Good Luck with it all going forward. I really do get your struggles. Mindy is the exact same way with cars. We cannot take normal walks. We live in suburbia so definitely have cars always. Left to her own devices, I know Mindy would chase a moving vehicle and be crushed under its tires. It’s terrifying. My husband just left home and Mindy flipped. It takes her about 10 minutes to sort herself out when someone leaves. It’s sort of like having a disabled child. You have to plan things out for the least amount of disruption possible. The normal counterconditioning to these situations you would do with your average dog just doesn’t get through.
On the other hand, over time I’ve adjusted my expectations of Mindy. I’m always working to figure out what she likes and can handle and do more of that. It means we spend a lot more time training and doing games inside at home than I would like, but I’ve come to appreciate the unique relationship we have and the lessons I’m learning along the way.
Remy is lucky to be with a caring family who has his best interests at heart. Let us know how things go!
On the other hand, over time I’ve adjusted my expectations of Mindy. I’m always working to figure out what she likes and can handle and do more of that. It means we spend a lot more time training and doing games inside at home than I would like, but I’ve come to appreciate the unique relationship we have and the lessons I’m learning along the way.
Remy is lucky to be with a caring family who has his best interests at heart. Let us know how things go!