I have a rescue cat and let me tell you the expense and problems were ongoing and expensive but I hung in there and he is normal to us. We let him be him and do things the way he has to do them to feel comfortable. He has a teepee he hides in when he feels the need to be alone, when someone rings the bell we know he wont be found, he is "hiding" under the bed usually, No one really ever gets to see him because he is afraid of strangers. He is fine with us, he loves to sit against my hip in the sofa and have me put my arm around him. He likes to nap under the covers and I always have throws and blankets all over house so he can hide. I have my dollies and tablecloth basket on a low shelf cause he is older and doesnt jump so high anymore but he loves to nap in that basket. he sits on the closed toilet seat when I take a bath and likes me to talk to him about the day. I know he wouldnt survive really at a pound or most places with noise, He loves us , he loves his home, he is just quirky and well his scars and bad memories sadly made him this way but we love him and that is all that matters. I did say I wouldnt do this again and looking into the prospect leaves me shaking my head, I must be crazy nut job to enter this arena. The rescue aspect was a major hassle, not fun, more expensive then a breeder and honestly when I bought my female from a breeder, it was friendly , easy and I got the charming little princess that I adore and melts my heart. She wins handsdown as I cant say no to her on her getting her way. I looked at several breeders picked one, picked my girl and paid and went home, couldnt have been easier or less hassle and I was thrilled for our new addition.
Today I looked at a contract for a doggie from a rescue the next state over as the little girl fit the bill and the rules were a bit far fetched as it states if I neglect anything in the contract I would have to pay $1000 fine and attorney fees. Example if I moved they must be notified of my address and phone within 14 days, knowing the problems I had in this move and an unexpected hospital stay for my companion I easily could have missed that 14 days. Just the list of the items that must be secured on a collar at all times, would need one heck of a large collar and well you get the idea. I learned from a move done by the world most dishonest movers that since I signed I was responsible even when they filled in blanks after I signed and I fought and have no recourse. I dont like signing things that have ridiculous openings for problems. a $1000 fine for finding a tick on my dog, after all it says must be free of fleas , ticks, parasites. Of course I dont want that in my home or on my cats or the dog either but technically I could be fined, makes one nervous, now I remember why I was looking at puppies again from breeders. After reading the contract and the massive application and the number of references I would be at this process for some time and then they will decide who I get I cant choose, not sure how I feel about this. I know rescues do great jobs and I so would rather take a rescue, but I really think they make it much harder then it has to be. I read enough stories to know some stories on the forum I read would have been in violation of their contract and these stories are from experienced owners.
I know there is an expense and we have savings from the sale of our larger home so I think we understand the possible vet costs, though I have to say I never knew there were so many shelties going to the vets on such a regular basis, this was all new to be prior to coming to this board. I watch our expenses and save where I can and try to stay within a budget so we keep our savings and have money to do special things when we want.
I think if I find one at a pound I might find things easier. Thanks all for your advice. I am not giving up on an older dog.