No wonder you are frustrated...Sally will follow us around when we are home, and on Mondays ,after we have been home all weekend, she does seem to snooze a good bit...she is 2 1/2,healthy,thyroid supported by replacement therapy. Weight gain and lethargy disappeared after tx. You have certainly looked for help for Abby...you say she is unhappy and doesn't run more than 50 ft. so something is amiss with her . You are a good advocate for her- don't give up.