Smudge HATES the new puppy!

Jessica... I apologize if I came over as overly harsh. You may have noticed I hit on the breeder and nothing more. Little things like that about worms in a litter and such just strike me to much. Yes, puppies can get worms easily. But, if the breeder is following a strict worming regime. They shouldn't be a problem. A good many people don't know as they've never raised a litter of puppies, but unless you gather stool samples and have them tested every week... a litter of puppies is supposed to be wormed a 2, 3, 4, 6, 8 and 12 weeks of age and then once a month thereafter. Following a worming schedule like that and kept in a clean enviroment your puppy should be pretty much worm free.

I'm actually thinking of no longer posting. Except on my litter page. No, I've no hurt feelings are anything like that. But, I get to sensitive in these situations and I don't need to make anyone upset, or hurt by my accusations. I'm sorry if I've hurt any feelings. But, I'm beginning to understand why most breeders stay off of forums.
 
On some suggestions... I've decided to stay, but no longer comment on post that have to deal with other breeders. I do have reputation to consider and don't want to say something that can hurt others feelings when it comes to breeding. If you have something you'd like to personally ask me on a question like this you can PM me.

Now, to get back on topic this is about Fluffy not me.
 
Congratulations on your little surprise. Sorry for you that you didn't get to choose the timing for this little one, but I know that you'll make the best of it all. She's precious and Smudge will have a good buddy in no time.
 
Chris said:
I feel sure you meant only the most kind concern for Jessica, as we all do for each other. Now that Jessica has made her decision, I figure my job is to respect that decision and offer all the support I can.

This forum is a refuge for many of us, a place where we can bring our concerns and joys -- Sheltie mostly, but sometimes other things -- a be certain of honesty and supportive kindness. My rule of thumb is, assume the best of intentions in each other -- you'll be right 99% of the time in Sheltie Nation. :yes:
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Chris,

This was extremely well said. I think it's important to remember to assume the best in responses received. The problem with quick, email-style communications is that it doesn't matter how many emoticons you add, your words can still be misunderstood.

Like many, I too was concerned about the finances of bringing up two puppies with health issues, particularly because of the "pumpkin" thread. Danielle was not trying to probe into your personal situation, but simply remind you of what you'd already told us, as a concern yourself.

But with your kind heart, you have made your decision. OUR job is to help and support you through it.

Best of luck! We're here if you need us!
 
SheltieLuver said:
Jessica... I apologize if I came over as overly harsh. You may have noticed I hit on the breeder and nothing more. Little things like that about worms in a litter and such just strike me to much. Yes, puppies can get worms easily. But, if the breeder is following a strict worming regime. They shouldn't be a problem. A good many people don't know as they've never raised a litter of puppies, but unless you gather stool samples and have them tested every week... a litter of puppies is supposed to be wormed a 2, 3, 4, 6, 8 and 12 weeks of age and then once a month thereafter. Following a worming schedule like that and kept in a clean enviroment your puppy should be pretty much worm free.

I'm actually thinking of no longer posting. Except on my litter page. No, I've no hurt feelings are anything like that. But, I get to sensitive in these situations and I don't need to make anyone upset, or hurt by my accusations. I'm sorry if I've hurt any feelings. But, I'm beginning to understand why most breeders stay off of forums.
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Hey, you've got lot's of valuable insight, knowledge and experience to share, and I would hate to lose that. I truly hope that you continue as a fully participating member of the forum, because I, personally, would miss you.

I think, as Chris so eloquently put it, that we all have to assume 99% best intentions, and try and keep that in mind, when we get answers that maybe we did not want to hear.

Cheers
Barb
 
Brighid's Mom said:
Once a week, they each go to separate classes so they had individual focus. Brighid went to agility and Faegen went to Puppy socialization classes. I can't stress enough how important I think that these puppy classes are since very young puppies can't go to dog parks and such.

For the first little while, Brighid got separate walks.
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Ooh, yes, I agree with the individual time with each of them. It helps them bond to you as well as each other.
 
Being a guy I can say "OK enough drama now behave ladies you are acting like hens" <insert electronic escaping sheep>

But most important how are they getting on now?
 
Missed all this...I'm not good at looking at everything every day.

First off: She is absolutely ADORABLE! Tris are amazing. They are my favorites...in fact, I tend to be a little bit of a tri snob. I love, love, love them!

Second, Smudge should get used to her with time. It always takes time. I agree that he seems to be exhibiting dominant behavior. Watch them closely when they are together.

I think I would be so angry at my sister, but so happy with her, if she did something like this to me. I think that when buying a dog, everyone should be included in the decisions. Dogs should not be gifts for this reason.

Keep working with them, and enjoy your new puppy!
 
Jessica, Fluffy is absolutely adorable!!! OMG, she's so cute. I gave up on Meggie's ears early on. I know you're supposed to be concerned that they tip correctly, but I figured God made Meggie's prick and that's the way we were going. I think Fluffy is adorable either way. But if you want to work on them, I'd get some professional direction at first so you know what to do. I was always afraid that in my ineptness I would do more harm than good.

I was once given a dog as a house warming present. Talk about being surprised! At the time I thought, OMG, a puppy and a new house, they don't go together at all. But Honey Marie turned out to be the light of our lives and I wouldn't have returned her for all the money in the world.

I sometimes think that certain comments would be better said in a private message. I know we are all entitled to our opinions, have passionate feelings about dogs, and normally have the best of intentions, but a PM may be a better way of relaying those thoughts in some cases.

Oh, I almost forgot, my dad's dog Lucy always humps Meggie, sometimes even Meggie's head! I know it's a dominance thing, but seriously!! They are both neutered girls.
 
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