Thanks to all for telling me your experience with this issue. It calmed me down a lot. If all goes by plan she will be spayed in late october/early november. I fear the operation and hope for the best so no sign of incontinence later in life but if it does come I hope the medicine will help. For her spaying is the best choice so I won't be worried sick when I'm at work and she doesn't need to be crated for the whole 8h.. Hanne I remember your thread about this and I re-readed if often now.