Trying to decide whether to euthanize our wonderful puppy

I can’t imagine how painful and difficult this decision must be, especially about one so young. My heart breaks for you.

My rule of thumb is always quality of life. If you decide to do surgery and the specialist thinks it would be successful, that’s one factor. Puppies heal quickly but can be difficult to keep confined during recovery.

There are a variety of ways to treat the IBD, some good ones suggested here. Your vet is the best source of solutions for that. It seems the bigger challenge is the orthopedic issue and what his prognosis could be there.

In the end, you need to weigh the information the vets are giving you as well as your ability to care for him and finance the medical care. It’s clear that you love little Fainley and want what’s best for him. Only you can decide that. I know you’ll make the right decision. We’re here for whatever support we can give, in whatever decision you make. Sending you hugs and comfort.
 
Dear St. Francis, please help Fainly's Mom & Dad make the best decision for his future. Guide the veterinarians in compassion and honesty as they help Fainly's family determine the best course forward for his ultimate well-being. In His name we ask, Amen
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Chris, I have to tell you your post made me smile in the middle of tears, with a childhood memory. I have prayed to St. Francis many a time. I was raised in Catholic school, and when it came time for confirmation I chose the name Francis (with an i) since I had felt so close to St. Francis because of his love for animals. With an "i" St. Francis would be directly connected to me, I felt. It was a shocking choice for the nuns, since it was a long time ago (I'm 84), and they forbade that spelling. I held my ground and my confirmation name is spelled with the male version, Francis. I don't use the name now, but I know it's there. Thank you for your kindness, as I thank you all.
 
My boy Gavin uses a wheelchair and goes to the beach every weekend. He can walk with his legs, but one of them is not really weight bearing, so it is like a walker for him. It is great for going to the bathroom, as pooping is awkward with a weak leg. He is also on Gabapentin for neuropathic issues. He has had this issue for 3-4 years now, and I think we have a good routine going. We use a stroller so I can get him out on walks to see things and places. Walking too much in the wheelchair puts pressure on his trachea and he would cough horribly (I think that is specific to Gavin tho). Gavin has always been a sweet boy, and since he lost his hearing a few years back he has become more of s snuggler.

So for the other side of this. Gavin is almost 16, so he had years of walks, hikes, camping trips, running on the beach, etc. He was already starting to slow down and sleep a lot more he got hurt. My place has accomodations all over for Gavin's limited mobility (throw rugs, ramps, etc.). I don't know how big your boy is, but Gavin is 35lbs and a bigger sheltie. I would say a smaller pup would be easier, and will end up being more of a lap dog (as opposed to a ball chasing dog). Dog wheelchairs are also wider than your dog, and not all homes are friendly for that. I spent the first few years obsessed with trying to make sure Gavin was happy, taken care of him as best as I could, and walked every day for at least an hour in his stroller. It wasn't healthy, tbh, so I have cut back a bit recently. There are some HUGE threads I started on Gavin's cancer treatment and his wheelchair journey. Not everyone has the bandwidth or resources to be a dog caregiver. But there are facebook groups dedicated to wheelchair dogs and rescues for them if you want to check them out. Traveling is a big issue, because finding someone who can look after a wheelchair dog is tricky (although that seems to revolve around the fact that many are incontinent).

Its definitely not impossible, but it is different. Dogs are amazingly adaptable, so it really comes down to you. I know some people refer to Gavin as handicapped, but I think of him as mobility challenged since his wheelchair use is limited to the beach (he tripods around at home). Gavin spends 22 hours a a day inside anyway aleeping, so it really only impacts those 2 hours when I could be walking him if he wasn't hurt. Walkin Wheels sells adjustable wheelchairs for about $250-300 online, so if your resources allow you can try it out and see how it goes.
 
I’m so very sorry that you and sweet Fainly are going thru such a hard time. The only idea I can add is to try talking to a canine physical therapist and see if there’s anything they can suggestions for his joint issues. Swimming, or exercises to build muscle and reduce pain.
 
I can’t imagine the difficulty in the decision you have to make. My heart goes out to you and your family. I agree with the others… quality of life is the most important. Just curious, have you discussed this with the breeder?
I spoke to her when Fainly first was diagnosed with IBD; asked if she'd help with the first vet bills. Answer was no. I hope to call her today. We have a contract with her. This was Fainly's mother's first litter and I think she must be the problem.
 
Thank you all so much for your help and support.

At this moment we plan to go ahead with the GI and orthopedic appointments later this month and then will make our decision. Fainly seems to feel a bit better than previously. We got a carrying sleeve for him so my husband can take him up and down steps. He's eating well, and of course plunks down with us inside the house wherever we are; he's asleep right next to me at the computer now. We do take him outside to the grass and stay with him there. I spoke with the orthopedist yesterday, who said it's fine to let him walk as much as he wants to, but nothing strenuous (which he wouldn't do anyway). I began having symptoms of some neuropathic problem just at the time we got Fainly, so I am a limited helper to my husband at this time, but am going to keep Fainly as happy as I can today. He loves his new canned i/d food. He'd been eating kibble, but I can hide his meds better in the wet food. I'm going to let the breeder know what's going on. I left word about the Chinese medicine with the orthopedist's assistant.

Please write me any time with any suggestions or thoughts you have; I very much appreciate your helpful notes.
 
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