We now have two shelties from Texas

Just a very positive, quick update on our little girl. It has been almost 6 weeks since she came into our home. While she is still hiding under the bed at times, she is bravely choosing to join us more and more each day.

We take what she offers us and praise every small step she takes towards becoming a part of our lives.

The biggest obstacle has been her lack of socialization and exposure to the world. She must have been very sheltered and each step out of the cocoon is very frightening for her. We continue to expose her to people, cars, unfamiliar sounds and places, even when she resists, however.

We love her. She has a sweet spirit.
 
That is a really good update...you are doing everything right and she is responding...kudos!

Trini
 
Well, it has been 3 months since we adopted her and our little girl is still hiding most of the time under my bed. It is time for meds. She is agoraphobic and hates going for walks...never knew a dog my whole life who didn't like to go for a walk! As much as she has progressed, it is still not normal in our experience. Hopefully, meds will be short term. I'm taking her to our vet next week.
 
I know you are discouraged that by 3 months you are not seeing a "normal" doggie emerge. However, depending on her past experiences and on her individual personality, 3 months is not that long for a little rescue to even start to overcome her fears...and depending on her past there are some fears/triggers she may never fully overcome. Medication may assist her if that is the route you decide to go, but time, love, allowing her to adjust at her own pace and celebrating even the smallest step as a big victory to be proud of are usually the way these frightened rescues respond best. It is a long haul but the rewards are huge when they finally do start to feel safe and to blossom.

Trini
 
Well done with your adoption! Welcome! I don't have any advice as it is not something I have done before. You have done a really kind and good hearted thing!:smile2:
 
sheltersheltie said:
Well, it has been 3 months since we adopted her and our little girl is still hiding most of the time under my bed. It is time for meds. She is agoraphobic and hates going for walks...never knew a dog my whole life who didn't like to go for a walk! As much as she has progressed, it is still not normal in our experience. Hopefully, meds will be short term. I'm taking her to our vet next week.
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The three month mark was also very frustrating with our puppy mill rescue Sheltie. She seemed to be back sliding in every way, housebreaking, coming to put on her leash (some what rare occurrence initially in our house too), was the even getting along well with the other dogs. Now 6 months in we are seeing real progress. We can reach for her and only get cringe instead of running away (she has always been willing to come over for a scratch if you sat perfectly still on the floor), excited about walks, and starting to make some obedience progress too. Hang in there, it just takes a long time, and as you surely know from fostering it's often two steps forward one step back.
 
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