Does Bela need a baby?

Jaynie

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Yesterday I stopped by the local pet market to get some dog food. On a hunch, I also bought three different styles of dog toys - a rope bone, a stuffy hedgehog, and one of those new "stufflingless" fuzzy toys. Bela has been TRYING to play lately, but just can't get the hang of things. I though seeing Gracie play with the different toys would help. (Before this, we only had two fuzzy toys, which neither one of them seemed to like very much.)

So I get home, get settled, and pull out the toys. Gracie (who clearly knows exactly what toys are for) pounces on the rope bone and starts shaking it madly. Bela, from her vantage point of the loveseat, looks at Gracie as if she suddenly grew horns.

I get out the hedgehog and sqeak it, showing it to Bela. She looks horrified, sniffs it thoroughly, then takes it up into the big chair and sits on it. (She does this when she has something that she doesn't want Gracie to have.) I continue to play with Gracie and the other toys.

Bela becomes curious, and comes over to see what we're doing, leaving the hedgehog unguarded. Gracie takes advantage and grabs the hedgehog, shaking it madly, terrier-style. Bela, again horrified, grabs the other end of the hedgehog. Bela, who is deadly serious, is NOT PLAYING. Gracie thinks it's a wonderful game, but soon gets bored and walks off. Bela takes the hedgehog and gently lays it in the chair, then curls up around it.

The lightbulb goes off over my head - SHE THINKS ITS HER BABY. She has been carrying it with her ever since, curling around it protectively whenever she lies down. She even took it into her crate last night.

Bela spent a great deal of her life as a puppy mill mama, until Sheltie Rescue got hold of her about a year ago. She was spayed this past March, so I'm sure it's more a behavioral thing than a hormonal thing. But it still worries me. She could develop a protective behavior towards the toy, and along with it some very bad habits.

She's due to start some obedience classes this coming January or February, as I think her confidence will have developed enough by then. Meanwhile, what shall I do about this potentially neurotic behavior? Should I take the toy away? She already won't let Gracie anywhere near it, but doesn't mind me taking it. We've had a couple of incidents of bared teeth, but nothing more serious.

Bela's been doing so well this past month or so, and my heart just sank when I realized what was happening. I had a dog many years ago who developed the same kind of neurosis about a deflated volley ball, and ended up biting several people over it. So I'm kind of afraid for Bela. I don't want her to become unhappy over this. She's had so much unhappiness in her life.

I'd appreciate any experiences/advice/opinions on how to handle this. I'm completely out of my depth, yet again!
 
Our Emma developed a different attitude towards stuffed toys for a while after her spay. Generally she DESTROYS stuffed toys quite quickly, killing the squeaker and eating the face off the toy within a few days. However, after her spay she would take a stuffed toy and curl up with it and groom it extensively. She would curl her lip at any of the other dogs that showed interest in her "baby" but nothing out of line. After several months she stopped focusing on the toy....but now she is just licking the fool out of the couch.

I think it was easier when she was babying a toy.
 
Our Abigail, who was also a puppy mill mama, has a lamb that she treats as her baby. She is quite protective over it (the boys know not to touch it, though Duncan will sneak off with it occasionally). She has groomed it so much that the ears are all but nubs, the arms are missing, the legs are loose... she dearly loves that little lamb. I think it brings her comfort and as long as I can take it from her without her becoming aggressive. We have a baby in the house, so I work on relinquishing anything they have regularly to prepare for when our baby is big enough to try to play with them and their toys. So far, so good. Though we will have to replace Raggedy Lamby pretty soon, as she is just falling apart.
 
Awww...how precious is that! I would let her keep it if it brings her comfort. Her whole life has been being a mama. That is what she knows. I saw a sheltie stuffed animal that looked real. But for now I would let her keep it.
 
I'm so dense. It never even occurred to me why Lottie loves the stuffed babies so much. She misses being a mommy! I don't know how many times she was bred, but her little teets look like a 90 year old woman's. She loves the stuffed toys, such a sweet little sheltie mommy!
 
I know past experiences for you are leading you to this fear, but at this point I think your anticipation of her becoming neurotic with it is unfounded. Try to keep an open mind on her behavior. She was a mom for such a long time and so far she is just showing teeth and that is a "fair warning" type signal.

I would not take it from her. Like the other posters have said, it obviously gives her comfort.
 
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