Jumping/Humping Visitors!

Lahree

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...............the dog is, that is!! lol! :winkgrin:

We don't have very many people who come over to our house--like, at all. I only have work friends and we don['t socialize outside of work and all of Richard's sees his friends when he goes out and has gigs. Well, yesterday we had two of Richard's friends come over to use our computer and Ellie was a COMPLETE idiot! When we walk her, she is made to sit politely while people pet her and we can get her to do that, so I never thought we would have a problem of this magnatude in the house. She jumped and jumped and jumped on these poor people and tried to hump the guy's arm when he reached down to push her off! We told them to ignore her and turn their back on her when she jumped up and it did NOT work, it made her even more anxious to get their attention so she turned up the volume. I had to put her on a leash the whole time they were here. :( What is up with this dog? She has a similar problem with us which is really weird....depending on which door we come in.

When I come home from work, I come in through the garage door. Ellie runs to greet me, and had been taught not to jump on me, which she doesn't. She wags her tail and licks my hand. She is as good as gold. However--if Richard or I go out the FRONT door and are gone for even two seconds and come back in--she is nuts! She lunges and jumps hysterically. She throws herself at us and barks and twirls and is basically a complete idiot. What IS the deal? The only thing we can figure out is that DH takes her on a ride almost daily and she LOVES that and they go out the front door. Maybe she thinks we are going on a ride without her if we go out the front door? She gets corrected each time she does this and when we go out for walks (which she loves) we go out the front door, but it is a very structured departure. She has to sit in front of the door and wait while the door is opned. She is not allowed to go out the front door until she is told. When we come back, it is the same way. She is made to sit in front of the door and made to wait while the door is opened and she is not allowed to go in until she is allowed. So, you see, it is not a free-for-all at the front door, so I don't have a clue why she consistently acts like an idiot when we go in or out of the front door or what we can do to stop it, since we correct her consistently when she does this. HELP!!
 
Max is the same way somewhat. If we come in through the garage door, it's all good. If it's the front door...he's a barking fool. He's good about not humping people, except for 2...a friend of ours who is a big guy & my stepmom. :rolleyes2: Why he picks those 2 makes no sense. He doesn't do it to Cindy or I or anyome else. I think it's probably a puppy thing. He associates the front door with either company or the pizza delivery guy. :lol:
 
You might need to desensitise her to the front door. Just keep going in and coming back and gradually increase the time you go out the door and come back. Its the same approach used for dogs with seperation anxiety.

As for jumping and humping. Try teaching her another way of expressing her excitement - say with a toy or rawhide or a bone. I give mine a squeaky toy (esp Deska who tends to nip when excited) and then they can squeak away with excitement. You can also remove her from the room until she calms down.

And dare I say it - sounds like Ellie might have hit adolescence!
 
Dogs learn in context, which also applies to where they learn. So if a dog learns it must walk nicely on lead in the garden, it will, but once it goes outside the garden this may all fall apart because it learned to walk nice 'in the garden', so it has to be taught that it also has to walk nice 'outside the garden'.

Aren't dogs complex!!

Anyway, my point is, more than likely Ellie has learned in context about greeting you. So she thinks that she has to sit nice when you enter by the garage, but she hasn't made the connection that she also has to sit nice when you come in by the front door. So lots of practice, like Caro said. Have little sessions where you go in and out the front door and insist on her sitting.

Now the humping thing. Again context. Ellie knows she must sit nicely for people outside the house, but as you say she doesn't get lots of practice of doing this indoors. She was also probably very excited at people coming to her home and very often a dog will 'up-the-ante' when trying to get attention.

I think if you can persuade people to come to your house and have Ellie on lead and then make her sit and greet them nicely just like when she is outdoors she will get it. Also time-outs when she gets beyond herself.

Cadbury has only ever (touches wood with extreme haste) humped my brother and it only happened once. I was told the next time he started my brother had to take him out of the room and shut the door (as it happened bruv was in the garden, so he put Cadbury in the kitchen). My brother did exactly this, Cadbury was upset to be shut indoors and has not repeated this behaviour since.

I'm sure Ellie will get there in the end:smile2:
 
I have a humper too...he only does it when he is overly excited or overly tired...
He seems to hump men more...LOL
I either put him on a down stay or if he's just too far gone..crate time.
I've heard they hump to show dominance...don't know about that..could be??

I agree with the door training..they need to learn things in alot of different venues to truely learn it...

Julie
Clancy & Abby
 
I've heard they hump to show dominance
Well that's what I thought too, but I got speaking to a trainer and behaviourist (well more than one) and also experienced breeders/owners and I got told that dogs don't view us like that. Especially when a dog is young its more to do with over-excitement and it can be attention-seeking (nothing grabs your attention more than a dog molesting your leg!!):lol:
 
Labgirl,

I think you summed it up very well. Context IS everything.

The boys certainly know when something is going to happen based on whatever activity I'm doing leading up to it. So bags packed at the garage door means "road trip to the cottage". Mom going to the front door (without the door bell ringing means "walk time"). Anybody coming IN through the front door (even me) means "something new to get excited about". Bark, twirl, whirl!
 
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