Don't hide. Trust me, we all understand. Look at ultra cute Bailey, yup, it's her defense mechanism to survive since I'm sure any owner would want to strangle her at times. Ditto with Koji, but he's not as cute as Bailey.
And good for you for all that you've done. I started agility to give Koji an outlet for all his energy. Never thought I'd get addicted to it. Never thought I'd WANT to calm him down for agility either, but it's what he/we need to work together.
I'm just starting all that calming stuff. Koji's had 5 years to be crazy, so I have a lot to undo.
Well....we've been working on getting him calm for a year and a half.....key word is working. Have not succeeded yet
We are seeing signs that he is getting better (like being PERFECT on a trail walk yesterday with people and other dogs at a 'safe' distance), but then he will completely lose his mind over something else (like a dog on the other side of the fence at agility class when he NEVER fence fights anywhere else). At least I know that it is insecurity and anxiety on Riley's part, so that makes some of it easier to deal with mentally. Koji is just as cute! They all are! That's why they're still with us.
I was complaining about Bailey to my Agility trainer. I told her how some days I wish I did better research and went to a different breeder. She told me she's glad I didn't, cause she doesn't even want to imagine where Bailey would be without me. she'd probably be with a rescue or put down.
I agree. We were supposed to be getting a calmer pup from the litter....well....Riley is not exactly calm is her:wink grin:
This is like reactive sheltie owners group therapy! We are not alone!!

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it hurts
but I am learning to be observant and now am seeing far more than I used to be. 
